Cortisol – Part 3: Healing Your Body

Welcome to my final blog post in my three part series about cortisol. If you haven’t read part one and two, please give them a read. Those posts will provide the necessary background information as to why it is important to reduce cortisol in your system and strive for hormonal balance.

As I’ve previously discussed, cortisol is a necessary hormone that helps your body get into action and survive intense, stressful situations. However, when cortisol runs rampant, it can cause quite a bit of wear and tear on the body. This can lead to mild to severe symptoms that can overhaul your physical, mental, and emotional health.

So how can you combat cortisol, bring balance to your body, reduce (and even reverse) the effects of cortisol on your system? Keep reading!

First, let me list some simple things that may help to slow you down and relax. These practices may seem obvious, but they really work!

  • Getting a massage (either professionally or from a friend/partner).
  • Mild exercise, such as a walk, swim, or fun sport.
  • Yoga, Tai Chi, or Qigong – You can join a class or find really helpful videos on youtube.
  • Mindfulness Meditation – I’ve provided some videos in my previous posts and there are more videos you can find on youtube.
  • Sleep – It’s really, absolutely vital that you are getting enough sleep. If you are sleep-deprived, not only are you throwing your body systems out of rhythm, but it will be harder to cope with daily life.
  • A balanced diet – It is important to eat healthy, raw foods more often than processed, sugary foods. Eating at every mealtime and enjoying healthy snacks in between can kick start metabolism and keep your body happy.

Along with healthy, stress reducing practices, there are also vitamins, minerals, and herbs that can really help with reducing stress and balancing cortisol in the system. For example:

  • Vitamin C – As mentioned in my previous posts, cortisol can inhibit your immune system. Take 1000 mg of vitamin C daily when you are feeling stressed and run down.
  • Magnesium – This mineral is necessary for enzymes to convert carbs, protein, and fat into energy, which will obviously help with increasing energy, but also losing weight caused by cortisol. It is also important for nervous system function. Supplementing magnesium at night time can help calm and relax your system so you are ready for a deep sleep. Most people are low on magnesium, so it’s a good idea take it regularly even if you aren’t stressed.
  • All B vitamins  – You can by a B-complex supplement, which should contain all essential B vitamins. These vitamins are important for enzyme function, as well as mental function and stress reduction.
  • Magnolia Bark – An antioxidant used in Chinese medicine to treat low energy, anxiety, and depression by modulating neurotransmitters and enzymes in the brain.
  • Ginseng – An adaptogen (meaning it brings balance to the physical processes of the body) that can improve mental function. It can also increase energy and endurance and improve the immune system. I mentioned in my previous blog post that cortisol can increase testosterone. Well, ginseng can reverse this effect by bringing balance to testosterone in the body.
  • Ashwangandha – Nicknamed “Indian Ginseng” because it has similar effects on the body as ginseng. This herb is used in Ayurvedic medicine to “balance life forces”, meaning it is used to treat insomnia, adrenal fatigue (which can be caused by too little or too much cortisol), and promote bodily relaxation.
  • Kava Kava – A great root for treating stress and anxiety. For more information, check out this post that I wrote about Kava.
  • St. John’s Wort – It is often used as an herbal alternative to antidepressants. It is used to improve mood and energy, as well as provide relief from fatigue that is caused by depression and high stress. It does all this by bringing balance to neurotransmitters in the brain.
  • 5-HTP – Tryptophan is an amino acid that is converted by the body into 5-HTP, which can then be converted into serotonin. Increasing serotonin (if you are lacking), can relieve depression, insomnia, and stress. There is are certain type of antidepressants called SSRIs (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) that aim to do exactly the same thing as 5-HTP. If you are currently using SSRIs, this may be an effective, natural alternative for you.

There are many more supplements and herbs that can be used to boost relaxation, reduce stress, and calm the body, but I just wanted to highlight a few that I have come across. Like all supplements and herbs, please do research before diving in and taking them. Most of these supplements can be taken safely, but some of them cannot be mixed with other medications or chronic illnesses. I would also advise seeking health advice from your doctor, naturopath, or other health care professional.

If you suffer from chronic stress, it may be a good idea to seek out professional help. There’s no shame in seeking outside assistance, especially if you have experienced some sort of trauma in your life. Life can be really hard to deal with, no matter who you are or what you’ve been through. Let’s face it: our society does not teach people how to handle stress and emotions properly and safely. It’s no wonder depression is an epidemic that’s only rising in North America! I have listed some therapies below that have been proven to help people manage their stress (some of which I have tried myself). I hope that one or all of these therapies can be effective for managing your stress.

  • Cognitive/behavioural therapy – This is probably the most popular form of therapy in the Western world. It used to change unhealthy thought patterns and behaviour, as well as solve current problems. I tried this therapy for two years and found it very helpful. There are many therapists and counselors available, so a quick google search should help you find one in your area.
  • Somatic experiencing (SE) – This is a form of therapy used to treat post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and other related effects from trauma (mental or physical). The essence of SE is that trauma (or stress) is stored up in the body as energy. The goal is to release that energy to relieve built up tension and pain. I’m currently seeing an SE therapist and I am finding it quite helpful!
  • Tension, Stress, and Trauma Release Exercise (TRE) – This therapy is very similar to Somatic Experiencing, but more intense. I haven’t tried this myself, but I know others who have benefited from it. I follow a blog called The Ass Movement and there’s a great post on TRE that you can read there.

That wraps up my three part series on cortisol! I hope that some of what I’ve shared has and will help you combat stress. Trust me, we’re in this together! If you have any questions, feel free to comment.

Make sure to take a breathe, meditate (Ommmm), and stretch out those limbs yoga-style! You deserve it!

♥ Michaela

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Cortisol – Part 2: How it Works

“I was a little excited but mostly blorft. ‘Blorft’ is an adjective I just made up that means ‘Completely overwhelmed but proceeding as if everything is fine and reacting to the stress with the torpor of a possum.’ I have been blorft every day for the past seven years.” – Tina Fey, Bossypants

Can you relate to the above post? Are you overwhelmed with life, but you just keep going, pushing onward through the stress even though you can feel its wear and tear on your body? The amount of stress that we put ourselves through is astronomical in the Western world and, what’s even crazier, is that it’s largely unnecessary. Even though stress and busyness is considered normal, sometimes even praiseworthy, that constant stress will come back and bite you in the ass.

As previously discussed in Cortisol – Part 1: the Stress Hormone, cortisol is a hormone that the pineal gland generates to help the body cope during extremely stressful situations, like fighting off a rabid dog. However, if cortisol levels remain too high for too long, the body may become unable to regulate cortisol in its system.

Before I talk about what you can do to manage your cortisol levels, I wanted to discuss how cortisol actually effects the body. This way you can see that it is an essential hormone, but also one that can cause a lot of problems if our stress levels run rampant. Please read below to find a general overview on the impact of cortisol on the body system.

  • Cortisol can inhibit insulin from moving glucose (sugar) into the cells, which raises the level of glucose in the bloodstream. Naturally this can cause blood sugar imbalances, which may lead to hypo- or hyperglycemia.
  • It can partially shut down the immune system by interfering with t-cell production and function. Because of this, you can become more susceptible to illness. If you find yourself frequently catching a cold or flu, this may be why.
  • It can inhibit the uptake of amino acids into muscle cells and inhibit bone function and calcium absorption, which can decrease bone density and muscle mass.
  • Cortisol can make the body more sensitive to epinephrine (adrenaline) and norepinephrine (noradrenaline). This can cause vasoconstriction (constriction of the blood vessels), which will increase blood pressure and heart rate.
  • It can interfere with the production and function of thyroid hormones causing your thyroid to work too hard (hyperthyroidism) or not hard enough (hypothyroidism).
  • It can increase gastric acid production in the stomach, which can cause acid reflux, digestion issues, and intestinal problems.
  • It can interfere with fertility and pregnancy, which can make it difficult to conceive and may interfere with the health of your baby.
  • It can interfere with your metabolism and this can cause intense hunger, food cravings, and an increase in abdominal fat.
  • It can have an impact on the hippocampus in the brain, which can throw off your emotions, inhibit your memory capacity, and cause cognitive impairment.
  • Cortisol is naturally released in your body during the morning hours to wake you up. However, if you have an imbalance, cortisol may be released at night time. This can cause insomnia and other sleep disturbances.
  • Because of the general impact of cortisol in your system, it can cause fatigue from lack of sleep and an overworked or sluggish system.
  • Cortisol can increase in testosterone, which can cause high blood pressure, increase in body fat, an increase in estrogen, mood swings, water retention, & more.

If you were in a survival situation, most of the side effects of cortisol would be very helpful. If we go back to my rabid dog scenario, it makes a lot of sense that your body would need an increase in adrenaline to either get you fighting or running away from said dog and a decrease in metabolism, which would not be a very helpful function in the moment. However, as you can see, prolonged stress can have quite a toll on the body. Without proper management, cortisol can do more than make you anxious. It can have a huge impact on your physical and mental health.

Now I’m sure you’re wondering what you can do to decrease your stress and normalize your levels of cortisol. Well, you’ll just have to wait for my final installment: Cortisol – Part 3: Healing Your Body.

Until then, hang out with a dog (which is scientifically proven to reduce stress), go to bed early, and listen to this 5 minute mindfulness meditation!

♥ Michaela


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Cortisol – Part 1: the Stress Hormone

Everyone knows that stress is bad for you. In our busy society, stress is an expected, even accepted, part of life. However, it is very clear that human beings were not meant to have crazy schedules and run themselves ragged. We aren’t meant to live off of less than 6 hours of sleep a night and chow on fast food between daily activities. We were made to relax. That crazy notion flies in the face of our society that equates busyness with success. However, continuous stress will wear down your health, make you fat, and destroy your mental and emotional well-being.

Take it from someone who knows. I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder about three years ago because my stress actually put me in the hospital on several occasions. Because my anxiety was off the charts, I was having seizure-like episodes and I actually thought that I had developed epilepsy. I had to temporarily move back in with my parents so that they could take care of me, take a break from work, and drop out of university. It was a crazy time in my life, but I’m really glad that my anxiety and stress levels are much lower now.

Speaking of, have you ever heard of cortisol?

Cortisol, also aptly nicknamed “the stress hormone”, is a hormone produced by the adrenal glands and released as part of the body’s natural cycles. Cortisol levels in the blood rise in the morning to pep us up for the day and then drop to its lowest point around 3am to ensure a good night’s rest. Cortisol also helps the body handle stress by shutting down unnecessary bodily functions to direct all its energy to dealing with the stress at hand. This can be quite important if, say, you’re being attacked by a rabid dog. Instead of your body focusing on digesting the sandwich you ate 15 minutes earlier, it will harness all its energy to fighting off the dog. Great, right?

While cortisol is quite important when we are faced with stressful situations, this can become a problem if our stress does not go away. Most of us rarely encounter life-threatening situations, yet our stress remains at high levels on a daily basis. Our bodies stay in survival mode, ready to attack or run away during an extremely stressful situation, even though we may just be upset because our coffee is cold or the kids are late for school. Because of this, cortisol levels can remain too high for too long and the body may become too worn out to normalize the amount of cortisol in its system.

But what exactly does cortisol do? How does it help the body handle stress? And why can this be harmful over an extended period of time?

Well, you’ll just have to stay tuned for Cortisol – Part 2: How It Works!

In the meantime, try taking some time out of your day to relax. Do some yoga, read a book, have a bubble bath, and eat a couple pieces of dark chocolate. If you have a partner, snuggle under the covers with them, ask them to give you a rub down, or enjoy some sexy time with them. Also, check out the guided mindfulness meditation below to reduce anxiety and stress. It really works!

♥ Michaela

P.S. Sorry for the absence. I, myself, have been under some stress and I’ve been focusing on resetting my system. I definitely needed some R&R!

Kava

Kava is a root that is native to the South Pacific, more specifically from Vanuatu, and it has a historical role in rituals and ceremonies practiced by the people that live there.

Now that Kava has been discovered by the wider population, it is used to calm anxiety, stress, and restlessness and it is used to treat insomnia. It has also been used to treat ADHD, epilepsy, psychosis, depression, and other cognitive and psychological ailments. In scientific studies, Kava has been shown to work better or as well as anti-anxiety and anti-depressant medications and, naturally, it can reduce sleep problems that are caused by anxiety. Kava can improve cognitive performance, while common prescription drugs for anxiety and depression can decrease cognitive ability. (Funny how drugs for mood disorders have so many side effects that can actually inhibit brain function instead of helping it.)

Kava can also help relax muscles. It works specifically on striated muscle (muscles that are under voluntary control), but not smooth muscle (such as the heart or lungs). Because of this, greater amount of oxygen, carried by the blood, can enter the tissues, such as the brain. This can really help with relaxation, while also aiding in brain function and providing relief for those that suffer with chronic pain.

The traditional preparation for Kava involves chewing (best results), pounding, or grinding the root and then adding the powder to cold water. The resulting Kava drink looks like muddy water, tastes a little like dirt, and depending on the concentration, it can have a numbing effect on the tongue and mouth. Kava is also available as a tincture and in pill form. It is also gaining such popularity that there are Kava bars cropping up around the world!

There have been about 25 known cases of liver damage after the use of Kava, however this hasn’t been directly linked to the root itself. The liver damage could have been caused by other medications that are metabolized by the liver, the improper preparation of Kava (for example, pills that use Kava leaves, which are toxic), and also the use of alcohol during Kava consumption. Despite the “fear mongers”, as my boyfriend calls them, the World Heath Organization has declared that Kava is safe for use.

With all medicine, herbal or otherwise, be cautious before taking Kava. If you are taking other medications or you have underlying health conditions, consult your doctor, naturopath, or herbalist. I’m not a doctor or licensed health practitioner and I am only passing along the information that I have gleaned from research. With all new health protocols, be wise!

I have tried Kava and I quite like it. My boyfriend makes Kava on a regular basis and he has kindly made me a cup or two. He is still experimenting with it, so every cup has contained a low concentration of Kava. I have to be careful with drinking Kava because I do take prescription medications that are metabolized by the liver. While Kava is very low risk, I’ve done the research and I know that some of my medications can interact with it. Better safe than sorry! I struggle with anxiety on a daily basis, so I’m still on the prowl for herbs that will help me relax without interacting with my meds.

If you feel stressed, have anxiety, or depression, give Kava a try! It’s really fun (and easy) to make at home, but you can also buy it in pill form or as a tincture. Keep in mind that pills and tinctures will have a higher concentration of Kava. Read all instructions before taking it. Also, make sure you do your own research before you dive in!

If you have tried or know of any herbs that are good for relaxation, post ’em here! Also, let me know if you’ve tried Kava & how you like it.

Here’s to a less stressful world!

♥ Michaela

Happy Thanksgiving!


In September, I wrote a post about cultivating gratitude and how it’s so important for healing and wellness. Without gratitude, it is so easy to sink farther into depression, illness, and the darkness that life sometimes brings. Because Canadian Thanksgiving just passed, I decided to write a post about what I’m grateful for. This will be something that I can look back on when I’m feeling down or overwhelmed and hopefully it will be a source of inspiration for yourself.

  1. My family. I won’t sugar coat it: my family has caused me strife at times and have also irritated me on multiple occasions. However, my family has also stuck by me when life has spiraled and they have provided laughter, support, a safety net, and a home for me to come back to.
  2. My boyfriend. We’ve been together for nine months and it has been a whirlwind of excitement, growth, love, challenges, and adventure. I’m looking forward to what the future holds for us.
  3. My best-friends. I don’t have a lot of people in my “inner circle” and I cherish the few that are there. They have supported me, loved me, challenged me, kicked me in the butt, called me on my crap, encouraged me endlessly, and never judged me. It has taken a lot of effort to cultivate these friendships, but it’s been so worth it.
  4. Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada. I am so thankful for where I live. I love Vancouver. Sure, it’s one of the most expensive places to live in the world, but it is beautiful, progressive, safe, and filled with adventure.
  5. The acquisition of knowledge. I’m really thankful for books, google, science, archaeology, education, philosophy, art, intellectual conversation, brilliant minds, curious folks, and the like. As Sir Francis Bacon said, “Knowledge is power”.
  6. Human potential. My potential, your potential…I really appreciate that there is always room to grow and progress. We never have to be stuck in any given situation. I’m not saying that it’s easy to change or enhance our lives and well-being, but the possibility is always there.
  7. Animals. I am so thankful for all creatures, well, almost all creatures. (I won’t deny that I’m not a fan of creepy crawlies.) I get so much enjoyment and comfort from animals, especially my dogs. This earth is an incredible menagerie and I am so grateful to be a part of it.
  8. Nature. Along the same lines, nature is truly a mystical beast. I frequently find myself in awe and wonder at the beauty, magic, and ferocity of nature.
  9. Laughter. Humour is my coping mechanism. Without laughter, I would probably waste away. I’m really grateful for the people in my life that can make me laugh and also for the hilarious comics that are out there
  10. My career. I’m ever so grateful for the wonderful career that I have. I never, ever thought that I would become a care aid, but I’m so thankful that I took a chance on this line of work. For me, it’s such a fulfilling career and I am so glad that my work can make a difference for others.

So there’s my list! I have many other things that I am thankful for, but I thought I’d just write down a few. Now it’s your turn: What are you thankful for? Leave a note in the comments. I’d love to hear what you have to say.

♥ Michaela

Book Review: Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg

One of my favourite things to do is peruse local thrift stores for books. I am a self-professed book junky. I consistently I have more books than my measly bookshelf can hold, which leads me to pile books on my desk, dresser, and floor. Yep, I have a problem. I was looking for books in one of my favourite thrift stores and I found this gem: Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg.

What is “nonviolent communication”? Rosenberg defines nonviolent communication (or NVC) as “a way of communicating that allows us to give from the heart”. At first, I thought this was some airy, fairy idea. I mean, come on, it sounded more like a way of sappy communication. It didn’t seem like it was for me. However, as someone who is known for historically being a poor communicator, though I’ve made big strides in this area, I decided I should give it a shot.

I have to be honest: this is one of the best books I’ve read in a really long time! I never knew that it was possible to clearly get right down to the bottom of my feelings, why I truly felt that way, and to be able to authentically express it to another person without them feeling attacked, judged, blamed, or discouraged. I also never realized that that there was a way to interact with other humans without constantly casting judgement on them (even just in my mind) wherever I go. It sounds -duh- so obvious, but how many people actually live their lives without judging or blaming the people around them? Not very many (myself included).

NVC basically comes down to being able to observe a situation, discover how we feel in relation to that situation, the needs and desires that are creating those feelings, and concrete actions other people can take in order to enrich our lives. It sounds convoluted or maybe too difficult to apply in every day life, but Rosenberg does a great job at giving practical applications for NVC.

The other thing that I love about this book is that it doesn’t just focus on expressing our own individual feelings and needs to another. In reverse, it’s about truly understanding the feelings and needs of others and responding with empathy. It’s also about being able to express our feelings and needs to ourselves and being able to give ourselves understanding. Not only is it important to have empathy for others, but I think a lot of people lack empathy for themselves. I think this is a large part of why depression is so rampant in our society. We judge, and blame, and hurt ourselves thinking that this will motivate us to gain the life we’ve always wanted, but instead it leaves us feeling worthless and downtrodden.

I’ve also experienced NVC at work in my own life. I have more empathy for others, even if they are communicating to me in an unhealthy way. One person, in particular, is notorious for coming at me with judgement and blame, but I’ve now been able to look past it and see the needs behind her expression without excusing her behaviour, of course.

Also, this has helped me in my relationship with my boyfriend. As I’m sure he would say, I am an emotional, sensitive woman. None of these things are bad, per say, but I tend to get upset about things more easily. While he and I never have major conflict, we do have miscommunication here and there. Yesterday was one of those days and he said something that hurt me without meaning to. (He’s a very loving and kind man who would never say anything on purpose to hurt me.) I was feeling upset about it, but I couldn’t pinpoint exactly what was bothering me, so I decided to use my NVC skills. I recognized what he said, clearly identified how it made me feel, and looked at my unmet needs that were creating those feelings. Boom. It all became clear. I was able to use all that information to clearly, and lovingly, express to my boyfriend what was going on. Our conflict has always ended well, but I felt especially good knowing that I was able to express myself without making the situation worse.

There’s so much more that Rosenberg talks about, too much for me to write down here, so I would highly encourage you to read this book. It has truly revolutionized how I see communication with others and with myself. Hopefully I can become an nonviolent communication expert, strengthen my relationships, and encourage myself and others.

♥ Michaela

My Story

Why am I interested in health? Why am I a care aid? Well, I would say that has to do with my personality and also my life experiences. If you’d like to know more, read below!

Growin’ Up Ain’t Easy

My life hasn’t been terrible. It definitely could have been worse, but it hasn’t been easy. I grew up in a broken home with an abusive father and an emotionally frayed mother. My parents divorced when I was quite young and my mother was solely responsible for my two older brothers and I. My family was quite dysfunctional and growing up around hostility and anger caused me to withdraw within myself. I became very quiet and I disliked socializing with people outside of my immediate family, including other children. I remember my mom forcing me to play with other kids so that I could learn some social skills. I hated it. I just wanted to be left alone in my bubble (i.e. my room) and play peacefully with my barbies or create art.

As a child, I was never taught how to properly handle emotions and pain. My family also didn’t take me seriously. Because of this, I internalized everything, not wanting the outside world to know what was going on inside of my world. As I grew up, my emotional and mental strife grew worse. My home was still hostile, I experienced more abuse, and I had very little friends. I became quite depressed. My depression grew worse in high school and I contemplated suicide many times. I didn’t know how to deal with my emotions and I had no support system to help me handle my pain. Occasionally teachers would reach out to me, but nothing really took my pain away.

A year after graduating from high school, my depression spiraled even further, to the point that I sought out help because I was afraid that I would take my own life. The support I received was short-term and I never really worked through my deeper issues. Nothing really changed in my life. My depression and anxiety, my toxic thinking, and poor life choices were building up and it was only a matter of time until I spiraled downwards again.

Giving Up

A couple of years ago, my depression got much, much worse. Even though I was taking antidepressants and sleeping pills for my insomnia, I still felt myself spiraling. Because I wasn’t in a healthy place, I sought out a romantic relationship with a man that was even more unhealthy than I was. Nothing really came of it, except for heartbreak on my end. Because I wasn’t doing well, that heartbreak pushed me over the edge. I got to the place where I couldn’t handle life anymore. I was so tired of feeling the heaviness of my pain. I wanted to kill myself. Unlike the other times that I was suicidal, this time I was serious. I wanted to die and end it all forever. Fortunately, I was clear-headed enough to ask for help before I could do anything detrimental. I called a friend in utter panic and desperation and she called my parents who took me to the hospital.

I was at my lowest point and there was no hiding it. My family, friends, and acquaintances were going to find out how bad things were for me. It was just inevitable. News would spread. I also couldn’t believe that things were so bad that I needed to be hospitalized. And when I got out, my roommate needed to hide the knives in our house so I wouldn’t hurt myself. She even asked me if she needed to hide my pills. I didn’t go to work for a week (and it wasn’t the first time my depression interfered with my responsibilities) and nurses came to my house every day for three weeks to make sure I was okay.

How did I get to this place?

No More

After that experience, I decided that I wanted to live. I didn’t want to die. I knew, somewhere deep inside of myself, that life was worth living, that my future could be bright and beautiful. I had no clue how I was going to revolutionize my life, but I had to do something. I was tired of conventional therapies (a psychiatrist said she couldn’t help me) and so I embarked on a new journey.

I knew I needed to work hard to get myself out of that place. I can tell you that it was very difficult. (It still is.) It took months of fighting, of pushing through the pain, of being honest with myself and with others, of forcing myself out of bed, and kicking myself in the ass. I had to face my demons, be real about my weaknesses, and truly, deeply love myself. It also required me to adopt healthier habits, say goodbye to unhealthy friends, and be true to myself and to my desires.

A New Life

I started researching healthier foods to eat, exercises to implement, and alternative health solutions. I’ve dabbled in mindfulness and yoga (I need to do more) and my diet has changed quite drastically. I try to stay on top of negative thinking and I don’t let myself spiral out of control anymore. Even though I’m not an expert at this, I try to jump on negative emotions right away and try to deal with them in a healthy way. I’m also extremely honest with my friends about what I’m going through. I no longer hide my pain, anxiety, stress, etc.

I am also dating a wonderful man who happens to be a holistic health nut. I’ve learned so much from him! He’s now my research buddy and accountability partner. It feels so good to finally be in a loving, supportive relationship. My boyfriend challenges me, pushes me to be better, and cuddles me when life is hard. He’s also an amazing listener, which is super great because I talk a lot! (I’m a verbal processor.)

I now surround myself with positive people who build me up and celebrate me. (And who also give me a swift dose of reality when I need one.) I am also pursuing my passion in life: caring for others. I am a full-time care aid and I love it! I love going to work knowing that I am providing someone with their essential needs. It feels so good to make a difference in the lives of those around you.

I’m also not that shy, scared kid that I used to be. I’m quite gregarious, actually. Though I would still consider myself an introvert, I am quite sociable, friendly, and I really enjoy being around others. I no longer fear making new friends and meeting new people. I feel insecure from time-to-time, but I am more confident in myself than I ever have been.

I am far from done my health journey. I have lots, and I mean lots, of room for growth. I need to join a gym so I can kick up my cardio and I’m sure I can cut back on a lot more sugar and processed foods. I still have wounds in my heart that need to be healed and my depression is still present, though much milder than before.

A few years ago, I would have never imagined that my life would be as fulfilling and wonderful as it is now. It’s not perfect by any means, but it’s more of the life that I’ve wanted than ever before.

I was telling my best-friend today that I love myself. I really, truly love who I am. I never thought I would ever feel that way. Though it sounds cheesy, it feels so good to tell myself “I love you”.

And it’s all a process. It’s a journey. Care to join me?

♥ Michaela

P.S. I would love to hear your story. Post it here or email me at somaholistichealth@gmail.com!